The Priority Paradox

My Journey from Singular to Plural and the Pursuit of Focus

The word "priority" hails from the Latin "prior," meaning "first" or "earlier." I've discovered that its meaning, linked to what comes first and matters most, has been skewed with the modern shift to the plural form "priorities." This shift has often hampered my ability to focus and achieve my goals. My recent experience with moving serves as a personal illustration of this concept.

Etymology and My Shift in Understanding

I've learned that "priority" first entered the English language in the 14th century, its singular form emphasizing one central focus. However, the 20th century brought the plural "priorities," leading to a change in how I—and many others—view what's essential.

When everything is a priority, nothing truly is. The concept of multiple priorities has sometimes diluted my focus, leading to a lack of progress in specific areas. The journey from "priority" to "priorities" reflects a societal change that I've also seen in my own life.

My Story: The Priority of the House

Moving out of my old home and into a new home was both exciting and demanding. As a Sales and Process Consultant with passions in leadership and happiness, I found myself caught up in my professional life, hobbies, and the moving process. I momentarily lost sight of my "one thing."

My wife wisely reminded me, "The house must be the priority." Her words helped me refocus on what mattered most at that time. By concentrating on the house, I made more effective decisions, ensuring a smooth transition.

This experience was a powerful lesson in the importance of recognizing and honoring the true priority. It resonated with my belief in focusing on the essential to achieve my goals, such as reaching a million people with my message or driving a lava orange Porsche.

The Power of One: My Lesson in Effectiveness

My story is a personal reminder of a principle that I believe can guide us all. By recognizing and focusing on a singular priority, we can align our efforts towards achieving it. In a world that celebrates multitasking, I've found the secret in concentrating on "the one thing."

For me, the etymology of "priority" is a historical reminder of the importance of a singular focus. The shift to the plural "priorities" might reflect our complex lives but often leads us away from our most important goals.

My moving experience taught me that recognizing and honoring my true priority can lead to effectiveness and fulfillment. Whether it's a career goal, a personal ambition, or even the daily tasks of life, embracing the original essence of "priority" has empowered me to achieve more.

In a world filled with distractions, I hope we all find our "one thing" and make it our priority. It's not just a lesson from history; it's a roadmap to success, one that I intend to follow as I continue to pursue my passions and goals.