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Dancing in the Rain

Embracing the Cozy Comfort of Gray Days

Phil Gerbyshak (he/him)
May 1, 2023
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Hey there, sunshines and raindrops! Are you ready to talk about everyone's favorite topic - weather? More specifically, gray days! Now, before you roll your eyes and start daydreaming about sunbathing on a tropical island, hear me out. Embracing gray days can actually make the sunny days even better - and we're not just saying that to make ourselves feel better.

When I was little, Grandma Gerbyshak would often say, “Life isn’t going to always be flowers and sausages.” Which meant, life won’t always be exactly what we want, but we need to embrace the contrast. And heck, who doesn’t love something besides flowers and sausages?

But seriously, there's a scientific reason why contrast is so important. Our brains are wired to respond to changes in light and dark, which means that when we've been surrounded by gray skies for a while, our brains are actually primed to appreciate the sunshine all the more. It's like a sensory reset button, if you will. And that's why we say - brighter days ahead!

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But it's not just about the science, folks. There's something special about the cozy comfort of a gray day. It's the perfect excuse to curl up with a good book, sip on a warm cup of tea, and indulge in some much-needed self-care. Gray days give us permission to slow down, take a breath, and just be - and sometimes, that's exactly what we need to appreciate the good times even more.

So, next time you're feeling a little blue (or gray, as the case may be), embrace it! Find joy in the little things - a warm blanket, a good movie, a hot bowl of soup. And know that brighter days are on the horizon - literally and figuratively. Gray days may not always be what we want, but they give us what we need - a little contrast, a little cozy comfort, and a whole lot of appreciation for the sunshine when it finally comes out to play.

So let's raise a mug of hot cocoa - or a dram of bourbon - to the gray days, my friends, and look forward to the brighter days ahead!

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